08/03/2010
I’m feeling inspire this morning… Inspire to tell you a way to live that I’m liking very much…Â I’m sure many of you are living life the same way already but some others would maybe need to start living it and see how life is much happier that way…
Don’t take my title the wrong way, I DO care about lots of things, keep reading my text and you will see what I mean by that…
“Life is a bitch” I’m sure you heard that before… right? Well it might be true in some occasions but I prefer to say “Life is a testing ground” She is having a blast testing our limits everyday. There is always so many details that we wont be happy with, so many little things that we wont be able to control or wont happen the way we wanted them to happen. I use to make such a big deal out of those little random things that was happening in my life. I don’t know if you are like this sometimes but when there is that little thing doesn’t work your whole day is ruined 
Stop torturing your head with minor details you had no control over too and also minor details that you cant change! (Past is the Past and except learning from your errors you cant change anything) Just say “Fuck it” or “I don’t care, I don’t care, I don’t care” and go on with your day and put back your smile forgetting pretty much what just happen. Life is WAY too short to to worry about details that we cant change, people who don’t like us, tragic situations, employee’s or boss’s stupidities and work stress.
Let’s just all enjoy life and live every seconds like it was the last one. Fulfill your head with happy and thoughtful thoughts. Have some great time with your lover, friends, family and co-workers. Stop looking at all their little defects and start looking at their strong points!
We most of the time always remember the bad stuff instead of the good things that happen all around us everyday… I think it’s time for a change don’t you think? 
Ok, fine. Let me rephrase that: Do you know “Andi Pink?”
Sure I know her
why this question?
Just wondering if she still models. Haven’t seen new stuff from her in a while.
she is but I’m not exactly sure where
I know AndiPink.com still have updates…
I agree with you but there are still millions of people that is not happy and they act as if no-one else should, don’t ever cross your way with one of that kind, I know what I’m sayin’ I met people like that way biggly often (so I think there are two possibilities: a) the worst one – there are more of that kind that anyone can imagine or b) better for almost everyone but not for me – I got a stutid and big magnetism for these
The more I read your blog and follow you the more I see the beauty underneath. One person can make a difference in so many lives with just there words alone.
Thanks for the reminder that life is truly a day at a time and enjoyed when embraced.
Im turning 50 in couple months and want to live life to the fullest and not go back and relive the past i can’t change.
*Hugs* Your words made my day
You are absolutely right! And I’m glad that you refer on a such inportant thing on your blog!!!
OK, but I think that it has to do with the personality of each one of us. And also the experiences that someone’s getting in his/her life. These two factors (personality and experience) determine how each person reacts in a specific situation.
Although in your above writing you’re reaching the “absolute” right, don’t forget that this each person’s differentiation, makes him/her unique, and as a consequence, acceptable from other persons or not.
If we were all the same (thinking and reacting the same way)then we would be just an army of “robots”.
What do you think?
by thinking the same way I was just talking about taking life easy and not to get bug too much with useless details and live life at it’s full potential
We don’t all want the same things so we would all make different choices.. but when things will go wrong (for many random reason) nobody would get angry 
I also think what ever happened in your life you can always turn it around and see it a different way
You are right!
Thank you Ariel for your answer!!!!
I think you’re right, life’s just a test.. I tend to think that if i pass Life’s little tests, i make him angry and beat him in a way.. But if i accept the mistakes i make, for what they are, i hurt the bitch even more.. I mean, life makes us miserable, why cant we get back at him?
Really cute picture on the post, too
I don’t think the goal is to make us miserable but make us stronger people
Yes, doing so by enjoying the little details, good or bad
And one more thing about…
What is important, is that we ourselves have to show more acceptance to what we see as different on an other person, (different opinion, different reaction)because this makes US more pleasant and acceptable to others, and also makes us more savant.
I hope you understand what I want to say…
But I do care about all those little details. They are important and they make stuff exciting.
ahaha well as long as you find them exciting and you take them the good way that’s all good
Il est vrai que je t’apprécie beaucoup pour ton physique à travers les photos et les vidéos que tu diffuses sur le Net. Mais je te trouve réellement attachante et intéressante pour ton intelligence, ton état d’esprit et ta conception de la vie. Et ce post positif très inspiré confirme et conforte mon point de vue à ton sujet. La vie n’est évidemment pas facile et certaines personnes le ressentent (beaucoup) plus durement que d’autres ; la chance, le destin et d’autres facteurs y sont sans doute pour quelque chose. Mais comme on a qu’une seule vie, il faut essayer d’en profiter au maximum, de positiver, de voir le bon côté des choses… la vie ne peut être ainsi que meilleure.
Comme beaucoup j’ai souffert par le passé, je connais des souffrances encore aujourd’hui et je souffrirai probablement demain. Mais entre ces epreuves, je vis et partage des instants de bonheur.
J’essaye le plus possible d’avancer, d’affronter les obstacles, de faire face aux difficultés, de me relever quand je tombe. Et je pense que plus on grandit et plus on veillit, plus on devient philosophe et on trouve la force de relativiser et de positiver en laissant de côté les détails et les choses futiles.
La vie est trop courte alors regardons devant nous et avançons tous ensemble en harmonie pour le bonheur de tous !!
ahhhh mais c’est tellement bien dit
Merci pour le compliment : l’écriture -une de mes passions- constitue la majeure partie de mon expérience professionnelle.
Si j’avais la chance de mieux te connaître, je pense que je me lancerais dans l’écriture d’une “autobiographie” sur toi et ton personnage…
I knew I would like your blog..its great! You’re Great!! I really like knowing your views and observations of life.. “enjoy life and live every seconds like it was the last one” words to live by.
Ariel, this is the greatest advice to anyone. You have developed into a beautiful young woman both inside and outside. I’ve know you for a period of time and you have mastered one of life’s most valuable lessons, to care but move on. Thankyou. Dan
Hello everyone!
I do not usually write many comments on websites, but it seems you were inside my head when you wrote this.
Fear of change … that’s what happens to most us. We are so used to tell us what we should do, what we have to buy. where we have to go … And when you hang your head do not know to react. We got to live a life that you’re not identified and when you want to change the past follows you and you drown in this. The theory of the problem is easy to understand but practice is another thing, there are always doors closed all the exits …
PS: Sorry for the bad English, complaints to google:)
Wow!Iam really impressed with the insight and maturity you wrote this with.Maybe a career in journalism is in your future?You could be the voice of reason for this next generation.After a generation of “trophy kids” you have given me hope.You really are a beautiful person inside and out.Funny,smart and that voice..its so sexy.Maybe you should think of going back to school.Business or journalism…just a thought.
ahah I don’t think I would be very good with all my spelling mistakes (in both languages).. lol
That’s why they have editors. Trust me; I’ve been one.
wouuuuuuuu niceee photos, you look soo sexyy well i think always ahahah….i tell you something cute , all the mexican say this the girls so beautifuull
that some of you are beautiful do not understand?
haha
have nice day baby, hoooo…i love your photos….damnnnn
soooo sexyy ariellllllllll
big hug..
you’re cute
xxx
This is the first time Ive fell in love with a girl from another country…
Im at internet cafe in fukuoka,japan.so ,although my current name is ‘shasta-japan’,I may arrive at your website with another name later on…(sorry)
From your official site I knew that you like Asian food..By the way, Ariel, do you like japanese foodand pop-culture?\(^o^)
Sorry,Ariel,it’s foolish of me to send a message with no relation to your pictures…
of course I love your pictures.It is obvious that everything you updated is great
you’re post reminds me of this song.
i hope you like it…i used to spin this song alot.
<3
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Abm-jsfbnwU
Cool!! Tks for sharing!!
babygirl, you are so on.take care of what is dear to you. nothing matters
Wow, that’s all wonderfully optimistic and all but i really don’t think i have it in me to think like that
I’m sure you do just don’t know it
Cute pic Ariel <3 and that is a good thing to think about..I often try to make myself think that way. Or if someone is frustrated/angry/upset…instead of getting fraustrated back at them I try to put myself in their shoes to see why they feel that way. It makes it easier to have empathy for them and stay calm.
Hey Ariel,
Sorry it’s been a while since I’ve stopped by to say “hi”. Don’t worry, I won’t bore you with the details, but basically I’m now feeling 110% better after a run in with a case of “walking” pneumonia, which according to my doctor is one step away from full-on pneumonia…yikes!!! I rarely ever get sick, but when I do…..it’s pretty bad (I guess, haha).
I was trying to fight it by myself still going to work everyday thinking that it would just go away naturally…and keep in mind, this is before I knew that I had more then just a cold or something, but then I finally got forced by my friends to go to the hospital when I could barely stand without leaning up against a wall. The doctor told me that I had to take time off of work and I told him that I didn’t want to miss work because like you….I’m a workaholic
But then he told me “fine, if you wanna keep working go ahead, but if you don’t take time to let your body recover….you could possibly die due to this illness”. So yeah, that’s when I finally took his advice and is why I haven’t been around for awhile. So I’m back now, but it’s not like if I wasn’t you wouldn’t have anyone to fill my shoes, haha.
Hope everything has been going better for you then me in the past couple weeks (according to all of your recent posts, it seems that way, except for the whole “tummy” thing recently). But hey, atleast you probably didn’t have a doctor tell you that you could possibly die, haha. But yeah, I feel great now. Just thought I’d let ya know so you didn’t think that I just up and left you as a fan……but let’s be honest, who could ever stop being a fan of yours
Thanks for (hopefully) understanding,
Patrick
Oh yeah, BTW….
I probably love this post the most since I’ve been away from your unplugged blog. “I don’t care” is exactly how I live my life everyday
And don’t get me wrong, it’s not like I say “I don’t care” to the important stuff going on in my life, it’s mainly said at the way people choose to view me.
Due to all of the tattoos I have and not to mention my pierced eyebrow and lip and toungue, alot of people choose to judge me as “bad news” before they ever get a chance to know me. And if they did, they would find out that I’m one of the most thoughtful and caring people out there (according to my family & friends) A perfect example is when I get asked about the tattoo I got of your name. When I tell certain people what it represents, they normally say “that’s cool, but I would never do that”. But guess what….I don’t care
I say live your life the way you want to with no regrets. I even have a tattoo of a small star under my right eye. The reason is because my whole immediate family got star tattoos just to represent “family”, and I said to myself “I’m putting mine under my eye”. People think I’m crazy to get a tattoo on my face, but like I said, I’m living my life with no regrets. I don’t wanna look back on life and wish I would’ve tried something that I never did. The way I see it, we only get one run on this earth, so you might as well do what you want while you’re here
I’m glad you obviously see it the same way
Patrick
I like the idea of a small star beside your eyes
But that must hurt!!!!
OMG! Pore sweety
Sometimes you NEED to take some time off but I so understand the workaholic problem… but at least we get things done 
I’m so happy to read you are back in to shape now
Glad to see you back on the blog and will look forward to answer your next comments
Thanks for understanding Ariel….you’re the best.
And as for the “workaholic” reply, you’re absolutely right….atleast we get things done, haha. But yeah, speaking of work, I just celebrated my 11th year working for Pepsi this past week!!! I started when I was only 18 and still in my senior year of high school (which makes me 29 now) and ever since my first day there I’ve had the “workaholic” attitude. I’m the first one there and the last one to leave, which is why I’ve got the manager position that I have now. All I’m trying to say is…hard work really does pay off, and you are a perfect example of that, and I personally thank you for that because you are the coolest person that I have “never” met.
And as for the star tattoo comment from you about it “must have hurt”, yeah it def. did hurt, but it’s such a small tattoo that it was over before I knew it. And the fact that I have SO MANY tattoos made it seem pretty easy to get too. And not that you would care, but I hope you don’t get the wrong idea and think that it’s some huge tattoo on my face. it’s only about 1/2 inch in diameter. I actually get alot of compliments on it because even though 99% of America dosent have a tattoo on their face, I’m told that I’m just one of those people that actually looks good with one, just like my tattoo of your name…..it just looks good on me, haha
No worries I’m not here to judge anybody
as a matter of fact, I really enjoy tattoo on a guy 
give that little bad boy feel that I really enjoy 