30/04/2010
Sooooooo…. How’s life everyone? How’s the weather on your part of the planet?
It’s SO BEAUTIFUL here in Montreal today 
 I just got back from a nice walk with my little Spunky! He’s so cute and I like to stop at the doggy park to let him play with all his doggy friends  They are so cute when they play together and it,s so funny to see Spunk trying to job on the biggest dog in the park with his mini legs… lol! I have a random question for the dogs owner from Montreal who’ reading this message… Do you guys know if the dog coffee shop is still open? I think it was on St-Denis I think but I cant find it anymore 
I liked to go take a coffee relax with my puppy but I cant find it anymore boohoo…
But anyways…Â Enough random talk… let me explain you why I wrote ” Be happy with what you have” on the title of this post…
I realize that I’m lucky to do the job I do and that my life is pretty relax and pretty cool…Â I remember when I was working for whatever company and I wanted to cry every morning when I was going to work because I thought everything I was doing was so useless…Â Well I was wrong it really wasn’t…Â In every job there is some good and bad…Â I only talk about the good stuff of my current job (most of the time) to you guys so you don’t know all the headache I have once in a while…Â Let me tell you I have my own headaches…
That’s where I realized that we always think that’s the grass is greener on the other side… We are never happy with what we have…
Now that I look back on everything, I’m starting to remember what I liked of my little random job in a coffee shop or in a clothing store… Maybe the job itself was a bit the same thing everyday but the people I was working with were super nice and we had fun goofing around in the store and going out on week ends. I also liked that when the job was done at the end of the day it was so easy for me to forget everything and just live my life normally… With this current job I don’t really have that luxury anymore… everyday, every minutes I think about it…
Don’t take me wrong I’m far form complaining! There is so many good things happening that make me forget about the little hick ups that I don’t like…Â And that exactly why I’m writing today so you guys and girls start seeing the way I am so we can all live in a happy world.
Now our goal is to always try to keep in mind (as much as we can but everybody got bad days it’s juts normal) that the grass is NOT greener on the other side and what we have in front of us is amazing for different reasons  I know I’m talking about these types of subjects often and I might be annoying once in a while with that but it’s so true! We can never have enough healthy reminders! Don’t you think?
It also make me feel good to write about it all the time (it’s also my way to remind myself) and I hope it feel good for you to read about it all the time  Maybe after a while my happy messages will stuck in to your head and you will be constantly happy! Who know? I think everything is possible!  You just need to believe it
On this I wish you all a good day (or night) all depend son what part of the world and what time you read this blog
Sending you a load of good vibrations  Use them for good
xoxoxoxoxox…
Hello Ariel.
Reminds me of some of what we’ve talked about. What people need to do is find out what their friday night essence is. What they like do, that is fun & pulls them to it because they enjoy it, that can also make them money as well. That way, they’ll have a job they fully enjoy & will be happier for it. We all have a friday night essence that we love to do, which can also make us a decent living, or maybe help us get much more than a decent living. Look forward to the next time we talk through I.M. as well Sweetheart. Have a wonderful Friday & weekend. May they be full of love, joy, pleasure & happiness. Love you Sweetheart.
Thank you Ariel for the positive reminder and message again!Every time you put that message out there Iam grateful for what I have and it makes me really proud of you for being so aware of having a positve attitude.Having so many men around the world who in a way worship you and your work it could go to your head turn you into a self-centered narcissist but you are very self-aware and down to earth and that is sexy!Lets face it most people today especially 20 somethings think the world revolves around them.Volunteer once in awhile to feed the homeless or work in an animal shelter,be a part of something bigger than yourselves{not you Ariel,everybody else}.Iam glad I got that off of my chest! You really have great potential but I have to leave that for another time.It has been the coldest winter I can remember here in San Francisco but today is a nice sunny day and it has warmed up a little and Iam warmed by you and your message,thanks so much!Iam really going to enjoy the weekend and you do the same.You really are the hottest woman on the web,beautiful inside and out and you just keep getting better! Cliff PS. anything is possible?I like that…
Congrats Ariel. Once again you have shown us your intelligent side. I not only feel lucky for what I have but I also feel lucky I have got to know such a lovely young woman, a least somewhat. I agree with Cliff, you’re a very down to earth gal who’s so pretty yet so smart too. I love these little messages. It shows how special you are. Really, really special.
Dan
You talk like my robot grandmother.
Well I think you should listen to your grand-mother more often
hi,
really, really greatful for the positive vibrations, feels a lot so good.
you know I feels so glad that someone who I really consider as a friend thinks the way I used to. that simple fact makes me want to resurrect the old mind I left behind because…because…waw…I don’t even know why but I guess that felt alone with so much to do.
Ariel cheri! Il est agréable de lire votre pensée et de comprendre que vous n’êtes pas seulement pornstar, mais la fille intelligente et sensible! Mais je veux vous poser une question à sujet que, peut-être, ne peut pas demander.
Vous êtes libres de marcher dans la rue avec un chien et rien ne fait peur? Je pense que vous devez être accompagné par la compagnie des agents de sûreté et la police. Vous n’êtes pas seulement une étoile. Vous êtes une créature rare et merveilleuse de la nature. Vous êtes une «propriete» de milliers de fans. Vous vous rendez compte de ta valeur et ta vulnérabilité? Comprenez vous que vous etes de meme que le cristal fragile ou une image d’un grand artiste, que quelqu’un pourrait gâcher? Pouvez-vous vous permettre que les gens ordinaires?
Pardonnez-moi pour ces questions, s’il vous plaît.
T trop chou
Mais je ne crois pas être assez célèbre pour avoir un garde de sécurité lol 
Je suis encore comme tout le monde et personne n’a jamais essayer m’enlever encore 
De toute façon à Montreal on ne voit pas le phénomène de groupi comme au USA… Les gens vous laisse tranquille 
haha Ariel on sais jamais sur qui on peux tomber à montréal pareil, si jte vois jt’atrape et je vais te………….
féléciter du superbe texte que tu a écris, et pour le café avec ton chien, bah viens faire un tour chez moi avec ton chien, ca va me faire plaisir de te faire un bon mochaccino mmmmm
mais petite question qui sort de mon coté protecteur de la culture du Québec, pourquoi n’as tu pas écris ton texte en francais ou du moin, francais et anglais?
ton fan fidel
Phil
L’Anglais est une langue un peu plus international sur le net et la majorité de mes fans le parle sans comprendre la belle langue de Molière
You know I am in complete agreement with this.
Follows directly from a post I made last week about men and women needing to be happy with what equipment they’ve got. 
Hehe, it’s true you know. I took this advice, it produced pretty good results.
I’ve got this job at a school, my official title is ‘ICT assistant’ or something but i mostly just do this-and-that. It’s not really an exciting job but it’s not horrible either.
Well to the point. Yesterday i got asked if i could stay late (i leave before the kids do) to teach the ‘special’ class how to use this bit of software.
Now i really didn’t want to do this. I couldn’t have taught even the fastest learning kids in the school that software in the time i had. Plus, working with ‘special’ kids has never been my favourite. I COULD have said no, but instead i took the chance, small though it was, to win a few brownie-points with my boss.
In short, good choice.
It turned out not to be too bad, although i was right about the kids not fully learning the software, i actually had a pretty good time working with them. The real bonus for me was that this girl i kinda who works as a teaching assistant was also working with that class. We got to talking, i asked her out and she said yes. And i got the promise of a pay-rise if i did it regularly.
So you’re totally right! Make the best of what you have in front of you and grab every opportunity you can
You should have been a life coach/motivational speaker for a living, y’know that?
Awwww… what an amazing story
Keep taking all opportunity (well maybe not all because you might some bad one) but keep enjoying life the way you do 
I really wish you all the luck in the world with her
I don’t know if I would be a good coach.. lol! I like what I do better
lol 
I thought while I have the chance to talk to all these people all around the world I could send my happiness messages to make this world better 
Hehe, so true.
Thank god there are people like you in the world
Today is my birthday.
Do you make celebration?
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOVE, LUST AND AN INCREDIBLE DAY!! Hope you will have a blast!
xoxoxoxoxoxox….
Thanx for ur message.
It’s my lifetime treasure!!!!!!!
And Did the sushi which did delivery from “twitter arrive yesterday? …………http://twitpic.com/1k6ue8
Mmmm.. sushi! I can never get enough!
I am sorry to keep it waiting.
http://twitpic.com/1k6ue8 (2days ago)
Hi
It´s been long since last I was in here, I have read this article and to be honest is good to know the way you think, I like what you have in mind about life itself and it has helped me to reflect about some things in my life and I will keep that expression you said in here and yes there is not perfect work today, some days are good some days sucks but once you have passed through that bad moment you think about it twice and then Lol like nothing were happened and remember what you do you do it with love and everyone, every one of your fans does know it and I know it and that´s why I thank you for what you do and I thank you just for living. However here in Colombia is raining a lot to be exact it rains everyday(I´m sick and tired of it)but complaining won´t help.
Bye
PSDT.I´m asking a lot saying this but I miss the days when you used to respond my comments :S
I’m glad my happy messages made a change in your life
I’m so flattered to read that 
Well, in fact is not a change but your thoughts help me to remind some basics about life, how to live it and how to have succes and be strong and yes, some people has got wore problems than us. Sometimes is good you were post things like this some days we need a piece of adivise and the one you gave us in here is useful to understand life sense and the sense of living.
Thank you very much for your philosophy
PSDT: I will learn some French in order to post you some cute words in here
You guys get dog coffee shops?! All we get is dog parks. I live in Central Texas but still. My mom has this little poodle rat lookin thing and I don’t it could handle coffee. It’d have a heart attack or explode, or somethin.
I forgot say on the green grass thing. It’s not that the grass is greener or even that there’s another side. It’s the accomplishments you make and each part of your life that you keep in equal balance. The grass is not greener it just seems that way cause what your shooting for is closer but what’s most important is dying. When you have, what you wanted, when your on the other side, you’ll see that the green grass has taken over what you had. When your going after what you want you still have to pay attention to everything else. What’s what you have without what you had?
you are looking fine as usual.but i love the picture of spunky.
spunky is cute,and so is his owner.don’t live there so don’t know about the coffee shop.but always be thankfull for what you have.you can lose it in a hart beat.
“Be happy with what you have”. Quite possibly one of the best quotes ever.
I for one, am 110% happy with the life I live and the things that I have. And like you said, even though my past jobs (and just past events in general) had their ups & downs, they all led me to where I am today….and for that, I’m thrilled.
I have a great job, the best friends ever, a mother, father, brother and sister who I love more then anything. And not to mention the fact that I get to talk to the most beautiful girl (that I’ve never met) and she actually writes back!!!!!!
Thanks for the uplifting message Ariel. It’s always nice to read something like this every now and then. I hope you “headaches” aren’t that bad, but hey, that’s what Spunky is there for. I’m sure he brightens up your day. I know Gator brightens up my day when I come home to him. He is just like Spunky (mini dauschound) but def. fatter then Spunky. I call him my “lowrider” since his small little legs put his body so close to the ground, haha.
ahahaha it’s true Spunky is the light in my bad days
He’s ALWAYS there to cheer me up no matter what happen 
I’m sure Gator and Spunky would have lots of fun together 
Can you show me a pics of your little angel/devil? 
Hey Ariel!!!
Here are the pics of my little Gator as promised. He’s like a lighter brown (and fatter, haha) Spunky. I took 2 pics of him up and awake and one of him doing what he does best….sleeping, haha. I hope you like them. And the reason I say that is because, unlike you, I don’t have a really nice camera to take pictures with, so I took them with my iPhone.
I’d like to see Gator and Spunky together (even though I know that wont happen)….it would be like watching David Spade and Chris Farley together…and by that I mean a little skinny guy hanging out with a big fat guy, haha
http://myfreefilehosting.com/f/d2542b53c9_0.11MB
http://myfreefilehosting.com/f/59ef50244d_0.13MB
http://myfreefilehosting.com/f/2c9fe2eb29_0.07MB
And yeah, I’ll def. let you know when I have the other “present” for you done……stay tuned
One of your (millions of) fans,
Patrick
AWWWWWWWWWW…… I’m already in love with him!!! I wish you were living closer so we can have Spunky and him play together!! he’s SOOO CUTE!!! I cant stop looking at the pics you sent!!
Thanks for being so cool
Hopefully we will have the chance to meet in a convention one day 
Haha, that’s really cool to hear you say that. I’m happy that you ended up liking him.. He’s my buddy.
And I gotta admit that it really makes me feel good to hear you say that you actually wish I lived closer so they could play together. It makes me feel that you don’t think I’m some weird guy or something…which I’m definatley not.
And in response to you thanking me for being so cool, i can only say….right back at ya.
. Like I’ve said before, you’re the coolest person that I’ve (never) met, and I too hope that we may have a chance to meet at a convention just so I could actually say “hi” in person…that would be awesome. I’m actually getting butterflies just thinking about it…I’d be so nervous, haha.
Well anyway, just know that you give me the time and date and I can promise that I will be at the convention…and I’d be there just to see one person, now I wonder who that would be, hmmmmmm.
And not to try and make you put a timeframe on it or anything, but do you have any plans within this year to do one? It’s no big deal if you don’t want to answer that, just thought I’d ask.
2 of your (millions of) fans,
Patrick & Gator, haha.
Hey!
I’m a bit too busy with the launch of my affiliate program and my solo Mandy but maybe next year I will have enough $$ to go and rent a booth where you can come say hi 
I have to admit that even me will be nervous 
meeting my fans will be an incredible thing but I’m still shy thinking about it LOL 
This year no