15/11/2011
What is your description of true love?
Is it possible to love more than one person at the time?
How many times is it too much sex in one week?
Where do we go after we die?
How bad the world as to be for the human to realize we are fucking everything up and start changing?
Can humans really change if they try hard or they will just end up bottling up their real nature?
I’ve been dreaming about a bunch of random stuff these past few days and when I wake up I seem to be asking myself a tons of existential questions.. Â They are not those exact questions going in my head but I have to admit that I feel like poking your brain a little today with some existential questions… Â I think those will help me discover more about you guys and isn’t this blog the whole point in the end? Â Thank you so much in advance for everyone of you who will take the time to answer me 
What is your description of true love?
Pour moi, l’amour c’est fort et rapide. Pourtant, ce qui semble absurde à dire, c’est que quand j,aime une personne, je serais capable de tout lui donner. Si elle veut me tromper, pas de problème, elle a bien le droit. Vu que je l,aime, je la laisse libre. C’est jusqu’à ça que je suis capable d’aimer. Sinon, la définition est tellement vaste et large, que c’est comme les goût, on peut pas vraiment dire squi est vraie, de squi est faux.
Is it possible to love more than one person at the time?Il est certain qu’on peut aimer plus qu’une personne, mais jamais tu ne ressentira la même affection pour les deux. Tout est si différent, que l’amour aussi que l’on ressent est différent.
How many times is it too much sex in one week?
Y’a pas de limite. Si a un moment donné, tu sens que le couple va moins bien et que les raprochement se font de plus en plus rare, c’est là que sa devient inquiètant. Sinon, j,espère juste que la relation n,est pas juste physique.
Where do we go after we die?
Ou tu crois toi =P Encore là , sa varie énormément…Mais moi je pense qu’on retourne a un état d,ame, dans lequel on doit retourner sur terre pour différente raison, encore là , variable pour chacun.
How bad the world as to be for the human to realize we are fucking everything up and start changing?
J,suis pas sur de comprendre ta question, mais disont que le plus pire est déjà envisager depuis fort longtemps. Notre existence est tout simplement un cadeau empoisoné. Il suffit de vivre dedans. Après tout, les possibilité sont illimités.
Can humans really change if they try hard or they will just end up bottling up their real nature?
tout peut changer. La preuve, j’suis capable de devenir un gars, tout en restant une femme…Bizarre, je sais XD mais le changement est possible, seulement, les raisons de chacun peuvent faire varié encore là les chances qu’on change. Si j,suis motivé a changer de ssexe, je pourrais changer. Mais si finalement j,ai le désire, mais que je reste toujours un gars, alors là , y,a aucun changement,. La routine est souvent le point faible d’une bonne majorité des gens.
Salut Ariel
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Premièrement, j’aime beaucoup ton style. Tu fais ce qui te plaît en restant TOI ! C’est surement la première raison que je suis ton blog.
Bref, en dehors du fait que tu es sexy et tout, j’aimerais un jour faire ta connaissance (sans arrière pensé
Et pour commencer, et pour mon premier commentaire sur ton blogue, je vais te donner mon point de vue sur tes questions
What is your description of true love?
For me true love would be what we see on tv.. the perfect couple. Where one another will always be there for each other. It could mean when you know what your partner is feeling, what he/she wants, needs. At the same time, the couple would always be happy to see one another everyday! Speak freely, share everything, laugh at stupid jokes, play stupid games xD
I guess the list can go on and on, but at least that’s a start.
Is it possible to love more than one person at the time?
If this question is independant from the first one… in my point of view, love is unique. Therefor only one person at a time. Maybe that is because I am unable to love more than 1, or else I would either “un-love” one to love the other xD
But I’m sure some people are able to love multiple people at a time… schizophrenia? haha
How many times is it too much sex in one week?
umm… when you start feeling sick? I think 3 times a day is a balanced average. Keeps you healthy too!
Where do we go after we die?
I want to believe that the body stays on earth, and the “soul/spirit” goes back to our true home planet somewhere in space
How bad the world as to be for the human to realize we are fucking everything up and start changing?
I think that society is too scared to change, because change can be a scary thought, therefore once everything will be dead. :/
Can humans really change if they try hard or they will just end up bottling up their real nature?
This question kinda goes back to the previous one, but I believe that we have yet found our real nature. We are meant for more than what we are doing ^^
Cheers
I am slightly surprised at the lack of replies. Nobody took your questions seriously? Strange.
Anyway, I have been thinking about your questions since I read them some days ago.
Before everything else, I will tell you this: oft-times it is more valuable to FIND the answer than to RECEIVE it. Why? Because in the journey there is a lot to discover, a lot to learn, much wisdom to be gained, which is completely overlooked if you simply receive the answer from other people. Likewise, when you DISCOVER the answer by yourself, the answer is a lot more powerful and personal to yourself. You will go beyond “believing” what you discovered, you will also “know” it to be true. Which is much more than what you can accomplish by simply asking others.
Of course, some answers might just give you enough information on what kind of journey of discovery you want to embark. In other words, they can be used as a compass for your own adventure and learning.
With that aside, I’ll try giving you some brief answers to your questions.
I simply say that “true love” is when somebody else’s happiness is more important than your own. Notice that this is also absolute, normal, un-carnal love. How is it different from carnal-love, besides the lust? I am still figuring that one out.
There’s a whole group of people who believe in multiple loves. Never heard of polyamory before? These people are “living proof” that it can happen. And I think they might be onto something, we aren’t sure what actually restricts us to loving only one person, scientists say it is just the way we chemically bond to other people. But that’s it, then, just chemical reactions?
Too much sex in a day is more than two orgasms for males. I read somewhere before that you develop some complications if you ejaculate more than twice a day. Females have no such restrictions, of course. Otherwise, “too much sex” follows the same criteria as any other addiction: it’s only too much if it can negatively impact the rest of your life. Do you not sleep enough? Do you start missing your work schedule? If you can meet all your other responsibilities, then you aren’t having “too much” sex (unless the males as ejaculating too much as stated earlier).
Life after death is a topic so vast that this comment would be impossibly long if I were to answer it. I’ll just say that I dedicated around five years of my life researching and learning about it. I’ll just say now: it ain’t the end.
Humans are still primitive creatures, they look first at their own preservation and selfish desires. It took generations of building ethics and a society to try to improve this. We will not learn until it’s “swim or sink”. The only way to get there earlier is through proper education so people are more aware of why it is important to think about others, too.
Denying our true nature, or reshaping ourselves into becoming better, is another vast topic that could take countless hours (and bottles of wine) to get through. I think we cannot change our basic “personality” setup. But we can change when we learn how others perceive us and how different it is from how we wanted to be perceived.
For instance, I would be perfectly fine being myself, until I learned that the way I did certain things offended others, then I immediately set out to remedy the situation. Because I never, EVER, wanted to offend others. I was just being careless with some aspects of myself which I thought were of no consequence to others.
Only if people honestly want to change, because of an inner desire, and not outer pressure, is that I believe they can (within our biological limits. Certain things like physical addiction to drugs, alcohol or nicotine can be real bitches, as the saying goes).
There you go, my “short” answers, sorry for writing so much, you know how good I am at writing books x_X;
PS: I just came back from Israel!
Though I think I’ll renew my membership to your site in January, right now I am SWARMED with late bills and factures from my prolonged absence x_x
True love is something beautiful and precious and is being killed by todays false society. It is what gives you the drive to face the onslaught of the world because you know that you will always have someone by your side.
It is impossible to love two people truly at the same time because if you truly loved the first person you wouldn’t have learnt to love the second.
The turning point that exists for humans to realise that we should start fixing the world instead of destroying it will occur on a world wide scale when it becomes cheaper to fix it the destroy the beautiful world we are slowly choking to death. It all comes down to money in this corrupt system we call the modern world.
Humans can change, people know when they change though to others the difference between a real change and a new facade is nought. If someone really wants to change, by breaking down their outer facade and searching for what really lives below the surface, what defines their choices and emotions, their moral system and the like, they now have access to a window of change. It is a long and hard path where it is extremely easy to slip back into your old self because it seems so familiar, especially when people or things from that past self arise. So at the end of the circle i just illustrated yes but it is something that they must do alone and is something that other people can start but the rest is up to that person.
PS you are so adorably cute in every possible way!!!
Someone once said that to love is to give something that one does not actually own.
There is no figure, by time or quantity, for too much sex. The threshold is simply when one can no longer lose oneself with ecstasy in the presence of another.
No one, and no world, can change the root of their being without everything else within being reduced to ashes first.
Somebody else said that love takes hostages. It may be that true love is somewhere between these two definitions.
well said
xxx
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